Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

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Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. Tune in for dating mishaps, heartbreak confessions, and the real talk you never knew you needed. New episodes every Friday!

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Here's a quick summary of the last 5 episodes on Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer.

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Nicole Byer

Previous Guests

Owen Burke
Owen Burke is a comedian and writer known for his work on the show 'Drunk History'. He has a background in improv and sketch comedy, having been involved with the Upright Citizens Brigade Theatre (UCB). Owen is recognized for his unique comedic style that often draws from personal experiences, including his journey through dating while being shy and awkward. He has made a name for himself in the comedy scene and continues to perform and create content that resonates with audiences.
Jackie Johnson
Jackie Johnson is a comedian and writer known for her work in the comedy scene, particularly in the Upright Citizens Brigade (UCB) theater. She has gained recognition for her candid discussions about relationships and personal experiences, including her journey through a difficult marriage and subsequent divorce. Jackie often shares insights on dating and love, blending humor with personal anecdotes. She is also the host of the live show 'How to Get a Second Husband' and has a strong presence in the comedy community.
Melissa Hunter
Melissa Hunter is a writer known for her work on popular television series such as 'Santa Clarita Diet', 'She-Hulk', and 'Home Economics'. She has gained recognition for her storytelling abilities and her unique perspective on various topics, including the realities of childbirth.
Wayne Brady
Wayne Brady is an American actor, singer, and comedian best known for his work on the improvisational comedy television series 'Whose Line Is It Anyway?' He has also hosted various television shows and appeared in numerous films and stage productions. Brady is recognized for his versatility in entertainment, showcasing his talents in comedy, music, and acting. He has won multiple awards, including Emmy Awards, and is known for his engaging personality and ability to connect with audiences. In addition to his television career, Brady has faced personal challenges, including navigating relationships as a single father and addressing issues of racism.
Jana Schmieding
Jana Schmieding is a comedian and actress known for her roles in the critically acclaimed series 'Reservation Dogs' and 'Rutherford Falls'. She is recognized for her work that often highlights Native American culture and experiences. Jana has a background in performance and storytelling, using her platform to discuss important social issues, including body positivity and the complexities of modern dating.

Topics Discussed

dating shyness UCB Los Angeles fires awkwardness comedy divorce UCB comedians nightmare marriage therapy red flags Valentines Day jury duty finding love childbirth labor unmedicated birth proposals public proposal private proposal dating red flags Instagram dating coach Wayne Brady dating struggles introvert persona racism in relationships single father Disneyland Tigger chub chasers fetishization body shame Native American dating breakup ceremony Curvy Wife Guys Kanye West Bianca Censori daily ritual love

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Episodes

Here's the recent few episodes on Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer.

0:00 1:04:33

Too Shy to Talk to People (w/ Owen Burke)

Hosts
Nicole Byer
Guests
Owen Burke
Keywords
dating shyness UCB Los Angeles fires awkwardness comedy

Comedian Owen Burke (Drunk History) joins Nicole for a conversation recorded in the middle of the Los Angeles fires (things were unhinged). They talk about trying to function while the world is burning, the early days of UCB, and how Owen managed to find a wife while being painfully shy and awkward with datingand how you can too. Plus, Nicole shares the time she gave John Mulaney her number. John, please call back.


Write Nicole a dirty message! Send it to [email protected] with the subject line "Dirty Message" and Nicole may read it in a future episode.


Support this podcast an get discounts by checking out our sponsors:

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View all of our sponsors and discounts codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors.


Follow:

Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast

TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod 

Instagram: @nicolebyer

X: @nicolebyer

Nicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746


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0:00 1:07:48

DIVORCED!!! (w/ Jackie Johnson)

Hosts
Nicole Byer
Guests
Jackie Johnson
Keywords
divorce dating UCB comedians nightmare marriage therapy red flags Valentines Day jury duty finding love

Comedian and friend Jackie Johnson was terrified to do this podcast… until she got a divorce. She joins Nicole to talk about dating a record number of canceled UCB comedians, surviving a nightmare marriage, and only realizing she was unhappy after it ended (plus how to spot signs of abuse in your own relationship). Jackie shares how therapy—and a witch’s spell—helped her find true love. Plus, they discuss the red flags they missed in past relationships, why getting married on Valentine’s Day was a HUGE mistake, the secret to getting out of jury duty, and Jackie’s genius advice on when to swoop in and land a man.


Chicago! Catch Jackie’s show How to Get a Second Husband live on June 1st! Get tickets here.


WATCH this episode on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/AjfNgx1xM5c


Write Nicole a dirty message! Send it to [email protected] with the subject line "Dirty Message" and Nicole may read it in a future episode.


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Follow:

YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast

TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod 

Instagram: @nicolebyer

X: @nicolebyer

Nicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746


This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on TwitterInstagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.


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0:00 50:06

Childbirth Nightmares, Public or Private Proposal? (w/ Melissa Hunter)

Hosts
Nicole Byer
Guests
Melissa Hunter
Keywords
childbirth labor unmedicated birth proposals public proposal private proposal dating red flags Instagram dating coach

Writer Melissa Hunter (Santa Clarita Diet, She-Hulk, Home Economics)  joins Nicole to talk through the messy reality of childbirth - including her 32-hour labor, an unexpected unmedicated birth after her epidural failed, and shitting on the table. They also get into whether proposals should be private or public (including Nicole’s dream proposal), the red flags of dating someone who won’t drop the bits, and the time Nicole got scammed by a hot Instagram dating coach.


WATCH this episode on YouTube at: youtu.be/j990cfqbO6w


Write to Nicole! Send your dirty messages to [email protected] with the subject line "Dirty Message" and Nicole may read it in a future episode.


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View all of our sponsors and discounts codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors.


Follow:

YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast

TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod 

Instagram: @nicolebyer

X: @nicolebyer

Nicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746


This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on TwitterInstagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.

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0:00 1:12:57

The Funny Guy Trap (w/ Wayne Brady)

Hosts
Nicole Byer
Guests
Wayne Brady
Keywords
Wayne Brady dating struggles introvert persona racism in relationships single father Disneyland Tigger

Comedian Wayne Brady (Whose Line Is It Anyway?What If? podcast) joins Nicole to talk about the struggles of dating when everyone expects you to be the funny guy from TV. He opens up about being an introvert, and how his dates sometimes get disappointed when he's not his 'persona' they know him for. Wayne shares the wild story of dating someone whose parent was openly racist, the struggles he's faced navigating racism in relationships, and what it's like dating as a single father. Plus, the crazy story of how he got fired from Disneyland playing Tigger... the day before landing his big break. 


WATCH this episode here: youtu.be/9GIwjGwhpxs


Check out Nicole's episode of Wayne Brady's podcast here: youtu.be/FGykSL24GZU?si=Vu9oYhPdpgPK2wLr


See Nicole do stand-up at a city near you. See all dates and tickets at linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken.


Write to Nicole! Send your dirty messages to [email protected] with the subject line "Dirty Message" and Nicole may read it in a future episode.


Follow:

YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast

TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod 

Instagram: @nicolebyer

X: @nicolebyer

Nicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

View all of our sponsors and discounts codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors.


This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on TwitterInstagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

0:00 1:04:08

Chubby Chasers (w/ Jana Schmieding)

Hosts
Nicole Byer
Guests
Jana Schmieding
Keywords
chub chasers fetishization body shame Native American dating breakup ceremony Curvy Wife Guys Kanye West Bianca Censori daily ritual love

Comedian Jana Schmieding (Reservation Dogs, Rutherford Falls) joins Nicole to discuss chub chasers, the difference between being fetishized and being genuinely wanted, and what it was like to date a man with body shame. She shares what it was like to date a sacred Native man, including a agonising "breakup ceremony" he put her through. Plus, they break down Curvy Wife Guy’s BBW bop, try to understand whatever the hell is happening between Kanye and Bianca Censori, and Jana shares her new daily ritual - a 6 seconds kiss on the lips to keep love alive.

Watch this episode on YouTube at: https://youtu.be/LfXEys73G_U


Write to Nicole! Send your dirty messages to [email protected] with the subject line "Dirty Message" and Nicole may read it in a future episode.


Follow:

YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast

TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod 

Instagram: @nicolebyer

X: @nicolebyer

Nicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

View all of our sponsors and discounts codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors.


This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on TwitterInstagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ratings

Global:
4.9 rating 17632 reviews

USA

4.9 ratings 15000 reviews

Canada

4.9 ratings 1400 reviews

UK

4.8 ratings 627 reviews

Australia

4.9 ratings 437 reviews

New Zealand

4.8 ratings 67 reviews

South Africa

5.0 ratings 52 reviews

Ireland

4.8 ratings 34 reviews

Singapore

4.7 ratings 15 reviews