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The Counselling Tutor podcast serves current and prospective students of counselling and psychotherapy, as well as qualified practitioners, supervisors and tutors. Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly examine the theory and practice of counselling and deliver academic, practice-based and CPD-related content in an easy-to-understand and fun podcast.

Students and practitioners of person-centred counselling, transactional analysis (TA) and behavioural models (e.g. CBT) will find something relevant to their studies and work on the Counselling Tutor podcast.

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Rory Lees-Oakes Ken Kelly

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Daragh McLaughlin
Daragh McLaughlin is a professional in website design, particularly focused on creating online platforms for therapists. He works with Web Healer, a company that specializes in providing tailored website solutions for mental health professionals. Daragh's expertise lies in helping therapists establish a reliable and professional online presence, ensuring they can effectively reach and engage with their clients.

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Extra-Therapeutic Factors Supervision Supporting Male Clients Counselling Session website design therapists online presence professionalism Managing Triggers Flashbacks Selective Mutism Ethical Practice Sustainable Practice Student Counsellors

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Hi, my name is Rory Lees-Oakes. I am a co-founder of Counsellingtutor.com and a former lecturer of counselling studies.

If you struggle to understand counselling theories or want clear explanations in everyday language to help with your assignments, you have come to the right place!

Have a look at our easy-to-understand videos on counselling theory and counselling skills.

CLICK- https://counsellingtutor.com/ For FREE resources, handouts and podcasts on counselling theory, skills and personal development.

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335 Extra-Therapeutic Factors in Supervision

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Rory Lees-Oakes Ken Kelly
Keywords
Extra-Therapeutic Factors Supervision Supporting Male Clients Counselling Session

335 Extra-Therapeutic Factors in Supervision Supporting Male Clients in Therapy How to Begin a Counselling Session In Episode 335 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this weeks three topics: Firstly in Ethical, Sustainable Practice, we look at extra-therapeutic factors in Supervision and how a []

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335 – Extra-Theraptuic Factors in Supervision

Supporting Male Clients in Therapy – How to Begin a Counselling Session











In Episode 334 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly guide us through this week’s three topics:



Firstly in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we look at extra-therapeutic factors in Supervision and how a client’s world outside the therapy room can influence outcomes.



Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory interviews James Hawes, author of The Secret Lives of Men, exploring how we can better understand and support male clients in therapy.



And lastly in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken talk about how to begin a counselling session, and what to say in those crucial opening moments.







Extra-Therapeutic Factors in Supervision [starts at 02:47 mins]





In this section, Rory and Ken look at extra-therapeutic factors in supervision and how elements outside the therapy room impact therapeutic outcomes.



Key points discussed include:



Lambert’s Pie research indicates that extra-therapeutic factors account for 40% of positive outcomes in therapy.



These include social support, life circumstances, and the client’s external environment.



Supervisors assess not just the client’s progress, but the well-being and context of the supervisee, too.







‘Recovery Capital’ highlights the resources clients have (emotional, social, practical), which can help sustain change.







Being aware of a client’s personal motivation, support networks, or external pressures helps deepen understanding of their process.



 Supervisors should encourage reflection on both internal and external influences that affect the therapeutic journey.





Supporting Male Clients in Therapy [starts at 21:19 mins]



In this week’s ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with James Hawes about masculinity, male emotional health, and supporting men in therapy.



The key points discussed include:



Men often lack the emotional language to express their inner experiences—common responses are 'fine', 'normal', or 'okay'.



Therapists should avoid directly asking 'how do you feel?' and instead help men build emotional vocabulary through tools and reflection.



Shame and intimacy are often unspoken barriers that keep men isolated.



Peer group work with other men can help ‘deshame’ difficult experiences.



Masculine norms and socialisation discourage vulnerability and seeking help.



Media and cultural influences (e.g. influencers, pornography) heavily shape male identity and perception of relationships.



 Creating emotional safety and connection is essential to engaging male clients.





How to Begin a Counselling Session [starts at 49:40 mins]



In this section, Rory and Ken talk about how to begin a counselling session, especially with a new client:



First sessions can be daunting for clients—acknowledge that and be warm and welcoming.



Invite the client in gently with open questions like 'What would you like to bring today?'



Some clients will speak freely, while others may be more reserved—be led by their pace.



Active listening and silence are key skills when building initial rapport.



Avoid assumptions based on referrals—clients may bring something completely different.



In follow-up sessions, continue to let the client set the agenda rather than directing based on previous sessions.



Note-taking becomes important to remember key narrative elements between sessions.



Allowing the client to feel heard without pressure builds a strong foundation for the therapeutic relationship.





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Links and Resources



James Hawes



The Secret Lives of Men



Counselling Skills Academy



Advanced Certificate in Counselling Supervision



Basic Counselling Skills: A Student Guide



Counsellor CPD



Counselling Study Resource



Counselling Theory in Practice: A Student Guide



Counselling Tutor Shop



Facebook group
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Understanding Website Design for Therapists with Daragh McLaughlin

Hosts
Rory Lees-Oakes
Guests
Daragh McLaughlin
Keywords
website design therapists online presence professionalism

WebHealer Special Episode: Understanding Website Design for Therapists with Daragh McLaughlin In this special edition of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your host, Rory Lees-Oakes speaks with Daragh McLaughlin from Web Healer, a company specialising in website design for therapists, about how to create a reliable, professional online presence. Daragh shares his expert advice on avoiding […]

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WebHealer Special Episode

Understanding Website Design for Therapists with Daragh McLaughlin













Key Takeaways:



Ensuring Your Website’s Future:Your website is an essential part of your practice. By taking the right steps and asking the right questions, you can ensure that it remains a valuable asset as your business grows.



Red Flags When Choosing a Web Designer:Be aware of slow response times, lack of a formal contract, and poor communication. These are signs that a web design company may not be the best fit for your needs.



Understanding Digital Assets:Your website is a valuable digital asset that supports your practice. Ensuring you maintain control over your domain name is crucial for long-term stability.



Importance of Domain Ownership:Always ensure that the domain name is registered in your name. Domain ownership issues can cause serious problems if you need to switch providers.



Clear Communication and Project Milestones:From the very beginning, establish clear communication expectations. Understand the project timeline, progress updates, and how to contact your designer with any concerns.



Ongoing Support and Website Access:Make sure your web designer provides ongoing support and you have administrative access to your website. This ensures that you can manage updates or make changes without relying solely on the designer.



Links and Resources



Counselling Skills Academy



Advanced Certificate in Counselling Supervision



Basic Counselling Skills: A Student Guide



Counsellor CPD



Counselling Study Resource



Counselling Theory in Practice: A Student Guide



Counselling Tutor Shop



Facebook group



Website



Online and Telephone Counselling: A Practitioner's Guide



Online and Telephone Counselling Course
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334 – Managing Triggers and Flashbacks

Hosts
Rory Lees-Oakes Ken Kelly
Keywords
Managing Triggers Flashbacks Selective Mutism Ethical Practice Sustainable Practice Student Counsellors

334 – Managing Triggers and Flashbacks Selective Mutism – Ideal Client Load for Student Counsellors In Episode 334 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly guide us through this week’s three topics: Firstly, in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we look at managing triggers and flashbacks—offering insights into how counsellors can support […]

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