Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships Podcast

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Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigate modern dating with more compassion, fun, and intention so you can create the love life you've always wanted!

Join us every Wednesday as we talk to real daters and experts about the entire gamut of modern dating and relationships – from securing your anxious attachment, choosing the right partner for you, healing from your breakup to dating in your 30s and beyond. Make sure to send us your burning dating questions as we answer them every Sunday!

If you're looking for a podcast that's relatable and full of emotional support and substance, then look no further. Let us be your biggest cheerleaders as you navigate dating in this crazy Dateable world.

Send us your brunchtalk questions at [email protected] or leave your question in a review!

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Here's a quick summary of the last 5 episodes on Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships.

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Yue Xu Julie Krafchick

Previous Guests

Danielle Bayard Jackson
Danielle Bayard Jackson is a friendship expert and advocate for the importance of friendships in mental health and personal development. She specializes in helping individuals navigate the complexities of friendships, including the various stages of friendship, supporting friends effectively, and dealing with challenges such as friend breakups and feelings of exclusion. Danielle is known for her engaging approach to discussing friendship dynamics and offers resources and insights through her website and social media platforms.
Benjamin Camras
Benjamin Camras, also known as the gay libra and the flirt coach, is a dating expert who specializes in helping individuals navigate the complexities of flirting and dating. With a unique approach that emphasizes natural and enjoyable interactions, Benjamin aims to change perceptions of flirting, making it accessible for everyone, including those who are introverted or socially anxious. He engages audiences through his social media presence and his podcast, the Flirtations Flirtcast, where he shares insights and tips on enhancing dating experiences.
Kimmy Seltzer
Kimmy Seltzer is a dating coach and the host of the podcast 'Charisma Quotient'. She specializes in helping individuals navigate the complexities of dating and relationships, particularly after significant life changes such as divorce. With a focus on self-discovery and personal growth, Kimmy shares her insights and experiences to empower others in their dating journeys. Her approach combines practical advice with a deep understanding of the emotional aspects of dating, making her a sought-after expert in the field.

Topics Discussed

friendship mental health friend breakups support navigating friendships overthinking intentional cautious dating situations analysis paralysis love life flirting dating social anxiety text game fun energy exes rebound relationships moving on engagement running into an ex dating in your 40s self-discovery divorce lifestyle differences expectations in dating second act

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Here's the recent few episodes on Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships.

0:00 1:05:13

S2015: The Friendship Episode w/ Danielle Bayard Jackson

Hosts
Yue Xu Julie Krafchick
Guests
Danielle Bayard Jackson
Keywords
friendship mental health friend breakups support navigating friendships

We're talking about a different relationship today: friendship! Not only how your friends can be there to support you while dating but more importantly, the immense value this type of relationship brings in itself. We're talking with friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson about everything from why friends are so important for our mental health, navigating the different stages of friendship, and how to help your friends in a way that truly supports them. We're also talking about the challenging sides of friendship: friend breakups, being excluded, or feeling alone as friends move on. Share this episode with a bestie and tell them how much they truly mean to you!

To learn more about Danielle, follow her @daniellebayardjackson and go to https://www.daniellebayardjackson.com/

Get OUR BOOK + take the Dating Archetypes quiz: https://howtobedateable.com/

Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/

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0:00 26:58

#brunchtalk: The Difference Between Overthinking and Being Intentional & Cautious

Hosts
Yue Xu Julie Krafchick
Keywords
overthinking intentional cautious dating situations analysis paralysis love life

Do you have a tendency to overthink dating situations? What's the healthy line of thinking things through to be intentional and even cautious but not to the point of analysis paralysis or driving ourselves crazy thinking about what *could* happen? We unpack the major difference in this episode how to lean into Thinker ways so it serves you, but also make sure you are taking action in your love life. Enjoy!

Listen today and share your thoughts via email, or leave a message on Spotify or YouTube now! Also don't forget to take our poll on Spotify + Instagram

Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/

HOW TO BE DATEABLE IS OUT! Order now: https://howtobedateable.com/

Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/

Our Sponsors:
* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE
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Support this podcast at https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations

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0:00 59:16

S2014: How To Flirt (Without Being Cringy) w/ Benjamin Camras

Hosts
Yue Xu Julie Krafchick
Guests
Benjamin Camras
Keywords
flirting dating social anxiety text game fun energy

We have a confession: we have a love / hate relationship with the word flirting. But we absolutely loved the energy of our guest Benjamin Camras aka the gay libra aka the flirt coach – and he 100% changed our outlook of what flirting can look like. We discuss how to flirt in a way that feels natural (even the introverted or socially anxious folks, we see you!), the biggest misperceptions of flirting, and how to start amping up your text game and how you are on dates to bring back some of the fun and flirty energy to dating that's missing nowadays.

To learn more about Benjamin, follow him @benjamincamras and stream the flirtations flirtcast. You can take the flirt styles quiz we mention in the intro too: https://stan.store/benjamincamras

Get OUR BOOK + take the Dating Archetypes quiz: https://howtobedateable.com/

Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/

Our Sponsors:
* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE
* Avocado Green Mattress: Save 10% on all bedding and 50% off clearance bedding at https://avocadogreenmattress.com
* Blueland: Get 15% off Blueland Cleaning supplies at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE with the code DATEABLE
* Happy Mammoth: Take the Free Quiz & Get 15% off, sitewide, on your first purchase at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE
* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns.
* SKIMS: Shop SKIMS Everyday Collection and more at SKIMS.com
* Washington Red Raspberries: For recipes, healthy tips, and retail locations go to https://redrazz.org


Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations

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0:00 30:37

#brunchtalk: Opening The Ex Files

Hosts
Yue Xu Julie Krafchick
Keywords
exes rebound relationships moving on engagement running into an ex

Dun. Dun. Dun. It's about to get creepy...or maybe just cringy as we talk about all things exes: what's your reaction to finding out your ex is engaged, what happens when you run into an ex, and the case for rebound relationships. Join us as we dish and unpack what it means to move on....and when your ex moves on. Enjoy!

Listen today and share your thoughts via email, or leave a message on Spotify or YouTube now! Also don't forget to take our poll on Spotify + Instagram

Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/

HOW TO BE DATEABLE IS OUT! Order now: https://howtobedateable.com/

Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/

Our Sponsors:
* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE
* Avocado Green Mattress: Save 10% on all bedding and 50% off clearance bedding at https://avocadogreenmattress.com
* Blueland: Get 15% off Blueland Cleaning supplies at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE with the code DATEABLE
* Happy Mammoth: Take the Free Quiz & Get 15% off, sitewide, on your first purchase at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE
* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns.
* SKIMS: Shop SKIMS Everyday Collection and more at SKIMS.com
* Washington Red Raspberries: For recipes, healthy tips, and retail locations go to https://redrazz.org


Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations

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0:00 1:08:47

S2013: Dating In Your 40's (And Beyond) w/ Kimmy Seltzer

Hosts
Yue Xu Julie Krafchick
Guests
Kimmy Seltzer
Keywords
dating in your 40s self-discovery divorce lifestyle differences expectations in dating second act

We've talked about dating in your 20s and 30s....but now we're diving into dating in your 40s – and beyond. We're joined with return guest Kimmy Seltzer who shares her insights as a dating coach and her own personal journey from divorce to self-discovery in 'the second act' as she likes to call it. We're discussing the more divergent differences of lifestyle that happen when dating in your 40s+, the different expectations in dating that come in each decade, and why dating "later in life" can be absolutely terrific if you let it be.

To learn more about Kimmy, check out her podcast 'Charisma Quotient' wherever you listen to podcasts and learn more about her at https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/

Related Episodes: S18E5: Dating In Your 30s

Get OUR BOOK + take the Dating Archetypes quiz: https://howtobedateable.com/

Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/

Our Sponsors:
* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE
* Avocado Green Mattress: Save 10% on all bedding and 50% off clearance bedding at https://avocadogreenmattress.com
* Blueland: Get 15% off Blueland Cleaning supplies at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE with the code DATEABLE
* Happy Mammoth: Take the Free Quiz & Get 15% off, sitewide, on your first purchase at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE
* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns.
* SKIMS: Shop SKIMS Everyday Collection and more at SKIMS.com
* Washington Red Raspberries: For recipes, healthy tips, and retail locations go to https://redrazz.org


Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations

Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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