Seeing Other People Podcast

In this solo episode, Im sharing some unexpected life updatesincluding a few medical things Ive been navigating latelyand TV shows I recently found out not everyone has seen (which feels criminal, honestly). Then were diving into modern dating red flags that are actually... green. From not texting all day to taking things slow to living at home and not having social media, there are a lot of behaviors weve been taught to panic about that are actually signs of emotional maturity, intentionality, or just being a normal person with a life offline.Lets break down whats actually a red flagand what might just be your inner saboteur overreacting.



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Im joined by Benjamin Camras, Flirt Coach and host of Flirtations!, to talk all things flirtinghow to build real chemistry, flirt without the ick, and actually know when someones into you. We answer your questions about navigating workplace crushes, why great text chemistry can fall flat in person, what it means when you keep getting the just friends response, and how to flirt with confidence (even if youre socially anxious). Whether you love flirting or dread it, this episode has something for you.



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I’m joined by my childhood best friend Jessie — the one who’s seen me through every confusing situationship, career pivot, and major life change. We’re talking about how she went from friends to married with her high school crush, what it was like when the three of us lived together, and her take on the guys I used to date… versus what she thought when she met Jake. We also answer listener questions about being in different life stages than your friends, falling for a friend, and how to support someone through heartbreak.

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Author and Relationship Expert Dr. Morgan Cutlip joins me to unpack the invisible load we carry in relationships—why emotional and mental labor often falls on one partner, and how to create more balance without resentment. We also talk about how relationship needs shift from dating to marriage, how to spot self-sabotage, and why independence can be hard to let go of in your first serious relationship in your 30s. Whether you’re single, dating, or deep in a long-term relationship, this episode will make you feel seen.

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Cohosts for Life is our new Patreon weekly series where we (Ilana & Jake) sit down every Sunday—just the two of us—to reflect, laugh, vent, and share the real behind-the-scenes of our lives together. Think of it as our relationship diary, marriage memoir, and life update all wrapped into one cozy, chaotic, honest little episode that drops every Monday.

Whether we're unpacking what made us laugh this week, sharing stories we forgot to tell each other in real time, or navigating the growing pains of being newlyweds, this is your front-row seat to the reality of being cohosts in both life and love.

Episode 1 is our here for you, but the rest will be exclusively on Patreon. Come hang with us 💛 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices