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It's CALLER DAY! Today we're joined by Sarah who is in a long term, long distance, *polyamorous* relationship. While she has agreed to all the terms, she doesn't feel prioritized or valued. Is this her anxious attachment style rearing its head or is it the relationship itself? And can she regain the power in this dynamic? Listen on for the Shandy take!



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Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sarah! 40:30 - Shandy Debrief

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What should you do if your mother-in-law keeps sending you money as a way to control you? As a guy in today's dating climate, is it assertively sexy or just plain pushy to reach back out to a past flame? And is it possible for your dream baby name to be "cursed"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!



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Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:37 - Q1: My Mother-In-Law Keeps Trying To Control Us With Money—Help! 15:23 - Q2: I’m Still Thinking About Her… Should I Reach Back Out? 32:52 - Q3: Should I Still Use My Dream Baby Name? 46:52 - Q4: Our Friends Booked Their Wedding One Week Before Ours—Should We Still Go?



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Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by Hannah who is juggling a lot in her personal life: a loving husband, 2 kids AND a loving girlfriend. But while things seem peachy, Hannah's parents—with whom she's extremely close—do NOT approve. How can she gain their acceptance of her poly lifestyle? Or how can she learn to accept their lack of acceptance? Listen on for the Shandy take!



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Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Hannah! 24:43 - Shandy Debrief

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At long last, we're joined by Carolina from season 29 of The Bachelor!

Today Carolina dishes the behind-the-scenes dirt on being the season's "villain" and shares the many things Grant told her off camera. She also provides loads of juicy context for the season's most polarizing scenes. Did Grant act like a player? What did Rose *really* tell Carolina off camera? Have she and Dina patched things up? And is Mean Girl Mob Mentality a thing? We devoured this candid conversation with the open book that is Carolina and we think you will too!



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Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Carolina! 1:37 - Was She Ever A Contender For Bachelorette? 2:43 - Did She Know She’d Become The “Villain”? 6:32 - Was There A Moment When Things “Turned”? 9:24 - That Dancing Group Date 11:44 - Things Grant Said 15:15 - Relationship Management 18:03 - The Season’s “Great Leader” Culture 24:16 - Rose & The “Player” Vibes 35:12 - Juliana 38:44 - The Scotland Group Date 43:10 - Dina 48:50 - Women Tell All 51:06 - True Friends 51:57 - Her Honest Thoughts on Grant 53:49 - Shandy Debrief



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Today we're joined by Love Is Blind's Meg and Mason, aka the couple we WISH we got to watch make it to the altar! Shandy is thrilled to welcome Meg and Mason IN STUDIO for this candid conversation!

Today Meg and Mason dish on their relationship (are they or aren't they dating??), what it was like watching the show back, and whether or not they wish they'd stayed on all season. Meg shares how it *really* felt watching back Mason and Madison's scenes, and they share whether or not Madison is the reason they broke up. We learn what got cut from the Reunion as well as their true thoughts on those "receipts"! Lots of fun (and tea) in this conversation—we loved chatting with these two and think you will too!



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Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Meg & Mason! 4:29 - Why Now And Not Then? 8:11 - Their Private “Big Reveal” - good spot for thumbnail 10:09 - First Impressions 13:46 - Did They Date Other People? 15:56 - Watching It All Back 20:09 - Madison 35:25 - Mason’s Response To Viewers Who Felt He Led On Both Women 38:05 - Do They Wish They’d Stayed On The Show For The Experience? 42:26 - The Reunion 55:32 - The Receipts 57:44 - How Mason Ended Up On The Show 59:52 - How They Complement Each Other 1:01:40 - Would They Have Met Without The Show 1:03:43 - How They Fight 1:05:57 - The Newlyweds Game 1:14:58 - Shandy Debrief

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