Changing Our Relationship With Pain | Dr Emily Musgrove
Simon Hill
Dr. Emily Musgrove
emotional discomfort
psychological flexibility
avoidance
values
wellbeing
mindfulness
resilience
performance
burnout
What if trying to feel good all the time is actually keeping you stuck?
In this episode ofThe Proof, Im joined by Dr. Emily Musgrove, clinical psychologist and author ofUnstuck, to explore why emotional discomfort isnt something to avoid, but something to understand. We unpack what it really means to be stuck, how avoidance sneaks into everyday life (even among high performers), and the role of values, awareness, and psychological flexibility in creating meaningful change.
In this episode, we cover:
Why feeling stuck doesnt mean youre broken
How emotional avoidance drives disconnection
The difference between psychological flexibility and cognitive fusion
The cost of always performing and staying polished
Hedonic vs. eudaimonic wellbeing
How to clarify values and live with intention
One practical step to start moving forward
If youre feeling overwhelmed, burned out, or just unsure of whats next, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and tools to help you reconnect with what matters.
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Simon Hill, MSc, BSc (Hons)
Creator of theproof.com
Host of The Proof with Simon Hill
Author of The Proof is in the Plants
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Nourish your gut with my Plant-Based Ferments Guide and download my Two-Week Meal Plan.
In this episode ofThe Proof, Im joined by Dr. Emily Musgrove, clinical psychologist and author ofUnstuck, to explore why emotional discomfort isnt something to avoid, but something to understand. We unpack what it really means to be stuck, how avoidance sneaks into everyday life (even among high performers), and the role of values, awareness, and psychological flexibility in creating meaningful change.
In this episode, we cover:
Why feeling stuck doesnt mean youre broken
How emotional avoidance drives disconnection
The difference between psychological flexibility and cognitive fusion
The cost of always performing and staying polished
Hedonic vs. eudaimonic wellbeing
How to clarify values and live with intention
One practical step to start moving forward
If youre feeling overwhelmed, burned out, or just unsure of whats next, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and tools to help you reconnect with what matters.
Want to support the show?
The best way to support the show is to use the products and services offered by our sponsors. To check them out and enjoy great savings, visit theproof.com/friends. You can also support the show by leaving a review on the Apple Podcast app and sharing your favourite episodes with friends and family.
This episode is brought to you by:
38TERA
Consider 38TERA's DMN prebiotic supplement a daily multivitamin for your gut. Formulated by yours truly and gastroenterologist Dr Will Bulsiewicz. Use code PROOF for 25% off at checkout.
Fireflies
Stay focused and let Fireflies handle the notes. From transcriptions and summaries to real-time voice commands, Fireflies turns your meetings into actionable insights, seamlessly integrating with Zoom, Google Meet, Slack, and more. Sign up for a yearly plan and gettwo months FREEatfireflies.ai/theproof.
Bragg
Bragg Organic Apple Cider Vinegar is raw, unfiltered, and naturally fermented with 100% organic apples, always with the live Mother in every bottle. Get 20% off your first order at bragg.com with promo codeSIMON.
Shopify
Shopify, the world's leading e-commerce platform, helps you turn browsers into buyers with the internets best-converting check outup to 36% better compared to other leading e-commerce platforms. To boost your conversion rate, and grow your business, sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/proof.
Eight Sleep
Upgrade your sleep with the Pod 5 Ultra by Eight Sleep. Clinically validated to deliver up to 1 extra hour of quality sleep per night through temperature control and biometric tracking. Use code THEPROOF for $350 off at eightsleep.com/theproof. Try it risk-free for 30 days, with worldwide shipping.
WHOOP
Whoop, the most advanced fitness and health wearable available. Your personalised fitness and health coach to recover faster, sleep better, and train smarter. Claim your first month free onjoin.whoop.com/simon.
Simon Hill, MSc, BSc (Hons)
Creator of theproof.com
Host of The Proof with Simon Hill
Author of The Proof is in the Plants
Subscribe & Connect:
YouTube
Apple Podcasts
Spotify
Instagram: @simonhill
Twitter: @theproof
Facebook: The Proof with Simon Hill
Nourish your gut with my Plant-Based Ferments Guide and download my Two-Week Meal Plan.